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Odd doctor out

Hello. 
The elite of the world have set certain etiquettes for the rest of the world to follow. Like the military people should be aggressive, the rich can be coy , the poor have to be hardworking . Centuries have passed , but the society is yet to accept dual qualities in a person like a lazy coy lad , a hardworking charming janitor etc.

There are certain etiquettes and characters they had categorised for a doctor . Like stressed still well dressed. Calm and Kaam . Angry yet Smiling.

Things have changed. People have even begun to accept stray dogs , fighting for animal rights . But accepting a hot , young grumpy  angry doctor is far from reality.

So , for youth of my generation who are aggressive , frustrated , lethargic patience is a quality they relate to some ancient mythological character .

The odd doctors face rejection from the older lot due to their impatient behaviour. They just don't understand that we are raised that way . Patience is just not our cup of tea. We don't read the entire lot from the newspaper .

We are taught to be ourselves . Asking us to be patient is like asking us to change our personality altogether .

Money matters , may be a little less because we get it easy these days . So please don't ask me you won't earn enough , because there are dozens of opportunities waiting for us.
 
So far so much 
Bye





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