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Responsible - Suddenly?!

Hey!

After a long hiatus, since I have  finally cleared my final year medicine , there are going to be a series of blogs . Some with a lot of gyan and some with the crazy experiences I have had in last semester.

Thanks to the Apple Store for deleting Blogger from AppStore India , Blogging through the desktop browser is the only way out and is very taxing.

So , I have very many topics to share with my readers . Like how crazy the last 50 days of my Final Exams were!  The vacation  . The internship .Stay tuned . There is a lumpsome to read.

For today , here is one from my drafts ...

How you feel is 100% your own responsibility. The universe is sending people into your life to test us. The perception we have of ourselves is greater than the perception others have of us. You are not a victim, nobody has power over you.  Consider how your thoughts or expectations may have manifested the situation that is bothering you.  What if the answer lies within your level of patience, irritability, or compassion? Unless we take the time to look, we subconsciously affirm our own victimization to the world around us. 

Once you hold yourself accountable and responsible for the way you choose to respond to something, you connect with yourself on a deeper level.  When you are connected to yourself on a deeper level, you don’t get knocked off your center as easily.
Place yourself in situations that boost your own energies. 

Does this person make you feel good? Do you make that person feel good? You are worthy of a brilliant experience and it is time to realize that fact.  
Learning to protect yourself against other people’s energies starts with self-love.  Remember that you are worth of happiness and peace, it’s ok to say no. and you are the author of your own energetic state.

Every parasite needs a host to survive. When you pay attention to somebody else, you are giving them energy. Whatever you focus on grows and energy vampires will steal your thoughts – decreasing your energy levels. Some people will dump their energy onto you and then drive on to the next pit stop. A friendly ear can be a wonderful thing but there is, again, a line that does not need to be crossed. 

Too much , na?
Chalo Bye!


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