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Step 8 : Learning difference between a boss and a leader

Hey all
During a hustle of being something you are hesitant to be , you learn a lot. I had always put down the idea of being a leader misinterpreting as boss. If you see and experience it closely you will understand.

1. Being social
A boss may be very social, but a leader takes social responsibility. Responsibility that how his actions , his behaviour may just create a beautiful change or a disaster by the pack thats following him. A boss tends to have less social responsibility .

2. Getting things done
A boss gets done what he wants whatsoever.  A leader knows how to get things done, invests time and energy along with the team.

3. Checking on people
A boss finds his team sick , grants leave. A leader checks on them , tries to help them emotional and i. whatever way possible.

4. Growth
A boss thinks about his growth . A leader not only things about his growth, but his teams growth and their personal growth. Grooms them to be leaders.
A boss goes faster but to a shorter distance. A leader goes gradually but to a longer distance.

5. Feedback
A boss gives negative feedback more often, appreciates occasionally. A leader appreciates good work and corrects mistakes with patience without being judgemental.

6. Responsible
A leader takes responsibility of their mistakes .
A leader is responsible for his team's actions.
Shows off their achievements.

7. Competition
A boss is competitive and doesn't show all tricks of trade to the protege. A leader not only teaches but also learns from the team.Celebrates their growth.

8. Opportunities
The boss only gives opportunity to the pet , or the ones who do it better. A leader gives fair opportunities to everyone , also focuses on the ones who need more help and attention.

So far learnt so much
Bye.

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