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Types of requests

Hey all today I got to know about the types of requests Action Request - where you ask someone to do a specific task,go to the store and buy milk or write a 10-page report.  Connection Request - where you ask someone to do something that will help you connect with them or that will help them connect to you. This usually comes up when one person wants to be heard or understood, or when someone wants to know how another person feels about what he said.  When needs are general, requests are specific. Tell me whether you hear a request in the following statement: 1. Wouldn't you like to go bowling tonight?  Is a clear request made? There is no clear request made. This statement could mean several things and the speaker has not made it clear what he wants. Such a vague question could mean that the speaker would like to go bowling or maybe he's asking his friend to go bowling with him or he simply wants to know if his friend wants to bowl tonight. Remember that requests should be spe

Get up

Hey all ,  There are days when you want to nap , there are days when you want to work your ass off... There are days when you don't want to move. There are days when you're by yourself. There are days when you have to talk to yourself. This is from one of such pep talks of mine to myself. Get up , because you were born to be the change Get up , because it is time to see the change Get up , to see the bigger picture Get up , to get going Get up , to touch more lives Get up , to save more lives Get up , to show gratitude Get up , to be thankful to the almighty Get up , to train to save lives Get up , to show humility Get up , to dust off the pride Get up to get going. So far so much. 

Defining enough

Hey all Sometimes you realise your feelings and thoughts kind of syn with some articles. Here is one from NVC , very relevant and must read! You never know what is enough until you know what is more than enough.   —William Blake Do you ever find yourself working and working, but not really knowing what success would look like? I realized that I spent a lot of my energy striving to be the best, but because I didn’t know what the best was, I never achieved my goal. There was always someone better, something else I could be learning, and something else I should be doing. It was a relentless search for an impossible goal. This focus brought enormous pain and disappointment into my life. So I set out to discover for myself what “enough” would look like. For me, it’s simply doing my best in any moment. Sometimes, if I’m tired and feeling sick, my best looks different than when I am rested and fit. If I catch myself criticizing my performance, I ask myself if I am doing my best in that momen

Be a humble bee !

Freeze your eggs

Hi all , Issued in interest of public mental health. Self coach yourself to filter your words and intentions. P.S. See ... It's about choices.  If somebody wants to do that one should be humble to, respect it.If somebody choses not to , you should respect that too. So far so much

feels

Project : Self

Let's get uncomfortable

Hi all Found this interesting and relatable post on one of my social media accounts. My thoughts resonated with this. Thought of sharing...  No idea of the credits so far so much Work in progress Bye